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      06-14-2021, 04:33 PM   #9439
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I'm not married, so not really.
I would say you're placing too much weight on the correlation of the "not married" and "not stupid". Being stupid can in fact be the reason for being not married.
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      06-14-2021, 04:56 PM   #9440
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I had a girl who identifies as a cat message me on one of the apps. She's not bad looking, but that is a level of crazy I'm not prepared for.
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      06-14-2021, 04:59 PM   #9441
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I had a girl who identifies as a cat message me on one of the apps. She's not bad looking, but that is a level of crazy I'm not prepared for.
I wonder if she likes it doggy style then? Only one way to find out
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      06-14-2021, 05:07 PM   #9442
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I had a girl who identifies as a cat message me on one of the apps. She's not bad looking, but that is a level of crazy I'm not prepared for.
Yep...nope!
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Did you ever got refused because you are remodelled?
As a guy, I can say that I don't have a problem with "modifications", especially if they aren't way overdone. It's obvious from profiles which women have gotten carried away and it has turned into a mental health issue.
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      06-14-2021, 10:23 PM   #9444
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I would say you're placing too much weight on the correlation of the "not married" and "not stupid". Being stupid can in fact be the reason for being not married.
There is no benefit to a man getting married outside of raising a family.

I don't have to deal with child support, alimony, divorce etc.
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There is no benefit to a man getting married outside of raising a family.

I don't have to deal with child support, alimony, divorce etc.
Did you get a vasectomy? Birth control is not 100% you know, so I'd say if not you could still be on the hook for child support. The rest, yes, you wouldn't deal with that.

I take it you've decided kids are not for you? No shame in that, just as long as you figure it out before it's too late.
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      06-14-2021, 11:02 PM   #9446
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Did you get a vasectomy? Birth control is not 100% you know, so I'd say if not you could still be on the hook for child support. The rest, yes, you wouldn't deal with that.

I take it you've decided kids are not for you? No shame in that, just as long as you figure it out before it's too late.
Yes, I am snipped and I get myself checked out every year to be sure that I am shooting blanks. I don't share this information with any of the women I sleep with though. I have lost count how many times women have tried to "trap" me into a relationship by claiming that they are bearing my children. The look on their faces when they see my papers of being sterile is priceless.
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      06-14-2021, 11:37 PM   #9447
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Did you get a vasectomy? Birth control is not 100% you know, so I'd say if not you could still be on the hook for child support. The rest, yes, you wouldn't deal with that.

I take it you've decided kids are not for you? No shame in that, just as long as you figure it out before it's too late.
Yes, I am snipped and I get myself checked out every year to be sure that I am shooting blanks. I don't share this information with any of the women I sleep with though. I have lost count how many times women have tried to "trap" me into a relationship by claiming that they are bearing my children. The look on their faces when they see my papers of being sterile is priceless.
I'm snipped as well (…and I have no kids). It's the best feeling to be worry free.
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      06-15-2021, 07:32 AM   #9448
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There is no benefit to a man getting married outside of raising a family.

I don't have to deal with child support, alimony, divorce etc.
I have to agree with this and say it often. In today's society, marriage is a dated ideology that died with the American Dream, something, something, something....and included white picket fences. Marriage doesn't seem like such a big deal considering the whole 'til death do us part....or until I pay an attorney. Marriage is gambling that you will bet half your stuff based on the hopes that your significant other upholds their end of the bargain. Shiiiid, I don't trust what I ate for lunch yesterday.

Slightly jaded on this topic as I learned the hard way. Child support, the divorce and all legal nuances, associated with my freedom are finally paid off and the entire ordeal(s), it took me twice to realize how dumb I am, are over.

My only disagreement with this post is that it isn't an advantage to a woman either....unless, family.
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      06-15-2021, 07:56 AM   #9449
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I had a girl who identifies as a cat message me on one of the apps. She's not bad looking, but that is a level of crazy I'm not prepared for.
My Maureen, youve enhanced yourself.
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      06-15-2021, 07:59 AM   #9450
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I'm snipped as well (…and I have no kids). It's the best feeling to be worry free.
Im thinking that might just be my 40th birthday present to myself. I hold off just in case I came a woman came along that convinced me otherwise but Im thinking I can just be happy with a puppy, motorcycles and an early retirement in Italy.
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I'm snipped as well (…and I have no kids). It's the best feeling to be worry free.
I bet you sleep so good without getting kicked in the face
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      06-15-2021, 09:06 AM   #9452
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I have to agree with this and say it often. In today's society, marriage is a dated ideology that died with the American Dream, something, something, something....and included white picket fences. Marriage doesn't seem like such a big deal considering the whole 'til death do us part....or until I pay an attorney. Marriage is gambling that you will bet half your stuff based on the hopes that your significant other upholds their end of the bargain. Shiiiid, I don't trust what I ate for lunch yesterday.

Slightly jaded on this topic as I learned the hard way. Child support, the divorce and all legal nuances, associated with my freedom are finally paid off and the entire ordeal(s), it took me twice to realize how dumb I am, are over.

My only disagreement with this post is that it isn't an advantage to a woman either....unless, family.
I agree with most of your post except the last statement. It's well known that women get the upper hand in family law court. The system provides huge incentives for women to behave badly during divorce proceedings particularly when it comes to matters around children. The majority of physical custody decisions go towards the woman. Child support is calculated based on income and more times than not is a detriment to the father. Between not having 50/50 custody by default and a substantial chunk of money being transferred to the mother, fathers get screwed big time. Until family law changes which means having custody decisions start at 50/50 along with auditing of child support costs in determining the actual needs for the child/children being taken care of, men will continue to get screwed. With the above said, there is no incentive for women to behave in a civil manner during a divorce.
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      06-15-2021, 09:07 AM   #9453
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I'm snipped as well (…and I have no kids). It's the best feeling to be worry free.
Im tempted, but scared of the process!!!

3 kids.
No plans at all for any more (Im 40 now!).

Tempted to go for the snip.....
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      06-15-2021, 09:10 AM   #9454
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I agree with most of your post except the last statement. It's well known that women get the upper hand in family law court. The system provides huge incentives for women to behave badly during divorce proceedings particularly when it comes to matters around children. The majority of physical custody decisions go towards the woman. Child support is calculated based on income and more times than not is a detriment to the father. Between not having 50/50 custody by default and a substantial chunk of money being transferred to the mother, fathers get screwed big time. Until family law changes which means having custody decisions start at 50/50 along with auditing of child support costs in determining the actual needs for the child/children being taken care of, men will continue to get screwed. With the above said, there is no incentive for women to behave in a civil manner during a divorce.
Just identify as a female. Problem solved.
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      06-15-2021, 09:22 AM   #9455
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Just identify as a female. Problem solved.
Pretty much spot on. I recall a guy trying this in a divorce case. I have to see if I can pull up any news articles on this.
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I agree with most of your post except the last statement. It's well known that women get the upper hand in family law court. The system provides huge incentives for women to behave badly during divorce proceedings particularly when it comes to matters around children. The majority of physical custody decisions go towards the woman. Child support is calculated based on income and more times than not is a detriment to the father. Between not having 50/50 custody by default and a substantial chunk of money being transferred to the mother, fathers get screwed big time. Until family law changes which means having custody decisions start at 50/50 along with auditing of child support costs in determining the actual needs for the child/children being taken care of, men will continue to get screwed. With the above said, there is no incentive for women to behave in a civil manner during a divorce.
I don't disagree with you....but my statement wasn't in regard to how women behave during a divorce. My statement was to call attention to the fact that it isn't beneficial to women to get married, unless building a family, just as it is advantageous for men to get married. I feel like I covered the divorce part with my next to last statement. Trust me, I know all too well how the same person who vowed to honor and cherish, suddenly turns into Black Friday shopping Karens in Wal-Mart if they think they're going to get something out of it.

Unless you are stating that the advantage to a woman getting married lies in the divorce....and for that, I suppose you would be spot on. Sorry, your point hit me after I hit the submit button, had to come back to edit.
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I don't disagree with you....but my statement wasn't in regard to how women behave during a divorce. My statement was to call attention to the fact that it isn't beneficial to women to get married, unless building a family, just as it is advantageous for men to get married. I feel like I covered the divorce part with my next to last statement. Trust me, I know all too well how the same person who vowed to honor and cherish, suddenly turns into Black Friday shopping Karens in Wal-Mart if they think they're going to get something out of it.

Unless you are stating that the advantage to a woman getting married lies in the divorce....and for that, I suppose you would be spot on. Sorry, your point hit me after I hit the submit button, had to come back to edit.
Yes. Whether children are involved or not, women have the advantage in a marriage if divorce enters the picture.
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I'm snipped as well (…and I have no kids). It's the best feeling to be worry free.
Im tempted, but scared of the process!!!

3 kids.
No plans at all for any more (Im 40 now!).

Tempted to go for the snip.....
It truly is the easiest 15-20 minute out patient surgery. I listened to an iPod playlist and read a bike magazine during that wonderful moment in 2008. Don't fear the testicular reaper.

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I'm snipped as well (…and I have no kids). It's the best feeling to be worry free.
I bet you sleep so good without getting kicked in the face
Hahaha! Your face (…and lips) seem to be holding up well. <hugs>
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I'm snipped as well (…and I have no kids). It's the best feeling to be worry free.
Im thinking that might just be my 40th birthday present to myself. I hold off just in case I came a woman came along that convinced me otherwise but Im thinking I can just be happy with a puppy, motorcycles and an early retirement in Italy.
Look at it this way, you can still do in-vitro or you can always have it reversed. There are also multiple types of vasectomy procedures. Some clamp/block the vas deferens temporarily; mine was the permanent suture/cut/cauterize vasectomy. There are options for you.
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