Yea 8 vs 22 big difference, and looking back at 22 with "adult" perspective. I look around today, seems worse. Just coverage and security alone, then add in financial and emotional stability.
Not saying I wouldn't leave a marriage JUST because of kids, but I might hold on a few years longer b/c of them.
I gave up "not about me" when I had them, in many senses.
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