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Again, what level of intimacy have you reached with her? No, sex is not everything but in this case we are using it as a proxy for determining her level of commitment to you. And based on what you've told us, all signs point to her happily using you for companionship and nothing more. You also sound like you're beat down and insecure enough to be OK with that. To each his own man. If you are truly ok with that, happy, and that's enough for you then have at it.
You've got 5 pages of responses here and not a single one says "hey she sounds like a winner."
Think about that. Lots of people here across multiple generations, men and women, all telling you the same thing.
Ignore the posts telling you to treat women like shit. But you do need to have an honest convo with yourself and stand up for what you need and what makes you happy. I see you making a ton of excuses for her and for yourself. I just don't get the sense you are happy or have the self respect to correct that. So you're stuck in a trap of your own making until YOU decide your deserve better.
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