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Originally Posted by CTinline-six
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Originally Posted by nyalpine90
Sara you have an obsession with pilots.
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I'm kind of in a similar boat as her I think, and not because I want to date pilots.
The issue is that along with physical attraction we need mental stimulation. People who have the ability to do that for us are usually intelligent and focused individuals. This can sometimes mean we find people who are socially awkward as they have been focused mostly on their work.
I work in Technology, and would say a good 75% of the people I work with are perfectly nice people, but socially awkward. I remember inviting some of them to join a softball league I was in at the time and it was... interesting. There's nothing wrong with that at all, just that it can make finding someone who is a match a bit more difficult. |
When we date via constructs, it's a "
date by exclusion" method rather than a "
date by inclusion" method. In the former, we seek reasons why we shouldn't date the person in question. It's premature. For all we know, this dude found Sara really attractive and he was nervous. I dunno, it's all supposition (….
and breaking down her dating life/woes is kind of fun), but we also recognize patterns. I think we all genuinely want to see her find someone, but we're trying to curtail some of her tendencies.
